If you know, you know. And if you don’t—well, this post is named after one of my favorite movies, 500 Days of Summer. It’s about Tom, a hopeless romantic and greeting card writer played by Joseph Gordon-Levitt, who gets absolutely blindsided when his girlfriend, Summer, ends things out of nowhere. He spends the next 500 days obsessing over every moment they shared, trying to pinpoint the exact second their love started unraveling. In the process, though, he stumbles upon something unexpected—himself. He rediscovers who he is outside of the heartbreak. And, in taking on Tom’s theme—and the very quick redirection my life is taking—I, too, have been doing some reflecting.…